Sex and then some.

I'm on a sexual upswing finally.  I mean I was going on almost three weeks without having sex with another person!  The world was basically about to end.

First I got introduced to a new lover through a random friend.  Yesssth!  Then I went on a successful okcupid date.  And we had sex!  Then a connection on fetlife turned into a date and we made out in her car.  So much nourishing touch.  God, that's the biggest deal.  Just being touched.  Well, once i get over that little sex hump. Sex can be like water at times.  Where when you don't have access to it, holy shit that's all you can think about.  Once that thirst is quenched though, cuddling and touch and nuzzling is so, healthy!  Gosh darn it all feels so good.

And that's not even the juiciest stuff.  It is vital though and keeps me running strong, happy, and full of vigor .  What the really yummy stuff is, is these Kinky Salon events that i've been volunteering and attending for the last couple of months.  Two nights ago was the third event I've been to and it was such a treat.  After going to a couple of swingers clubs while in Europe, the kinky salon parties offer such a stark contrast to that leering, male-centric, creepy vibe you get in the swinger community.  Aaaand, not that there is anything wrong with the swinger community, just when it's compared to the kinky salon community, night and day people, night and day.

These events have really opened up the door for me to explore my sexuality and it's been awesome.  

I'm so happy to have discovered this organization.  There is and has been so much shame around our sex in this culture.  So to have a space where I feel safe, where women feel safe, where people are excited about sex in all of it's shapes and forms and are celebrating this inclusiveness, holy shit it's beautiful.

I've been taking full advantage and my sex life is rocking right now!  On a very relevant note, this is new territory and so is sharing it publicly.   I've historically been quite afraid of sharing anything that might damage my reputation, and I've gotten advice from people that there's a line, and there are some things you share and some things you don't.  And here i am clumsily stumbling along that line.